A Daily Tune-Up

 Bill was a mystic. His ‘vital spiritual experience’ gave him a new perspective into living life, and offered him the viewpoint of a different plane of existence. He learned, after being ‘rocketed into a fourth dimension’, to see life in much broader terms than the concepts of will-power and self-control. 

If he was right, if mystics in general are right and we are indeed spiritual beings having a human experience, then we must look at our whole lives in that perspective. I have to - I have agreed to - look at my thoughts, words, and actions, and ask if they reflect the reality I have accepted. I must ask myself daily if I am ‘walking the talk’.

Sobriety was my first goal, and it remains the most observable gift of my personal growth. I don’t take it for granted, because it is the foundation of my spiritual connection with my Higher Power. Before sobriety, I knew that I was missing something vital to my existence, but I couldn’t define it. I didn’t want to get into any kind of religiosity, because I had experienced the manipulation inherent in having others define what I needed to believe in order to be all right. Nope. Not for me. 

My “Daily Tune-Up” is awareness, constantly reminding myself of who I AM. Illusions of separation from my Source are removed when I stop to express gratitude for the good, when I listen to birdsong, when I see the beauty all around me. I hold these memories as sacred - they nourish my soul during those times when all seems dark and I can’t find hope. 

In this moment, all is well. I’ll keep checking in.

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